I think most men, not all, prefer that a woman be docile, a bit stupid, certainly more stupid than themselves and that they never, never disagree with their man. He has a penis so he must be smart or so he thinks.Fortunately, I know many men who do not fit this middle America bible belt male model.

I don't see why any woman would change who she is just to keep some guy happy. The men who date me, more than once, know that I am not docile; I am not stupid and I will not hesitate for a moment to disagree with them, if they act or say something stupid or racist or sexist.

Does this scare some guys away? Sure. I don't care, though. I don't ask that guys change for me and I won't change for them.