Hi, I got sad when I read your post. I too have felt that I dont deserve to be out there dating and trying to find love because I spend so much time with my 7 y/o and his needs. It's not that he requires so much attention but more that he is #1 priority(besides my Christian pursuits of course). But why do we allow the seeming rejection of possible suitors color our outlook on life and love? Our kids are so beautiful and they make us better people. They teach us so many valuable life lessons and bring joy that is unsurpassed. What is sad is that there aren't many men(and women) who want to take the time to even get to know us if we include our child(ren) in our profiles. Really a pity.