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I'm with everyone else in saying: stop closing matches based on MHCS. Now, do close them if you don't like anything selected, but don't get all caught up with the mere mention of passion and sex.
Get to GC, have some discussions, see if you want to talk on the phone or meet in person, then have some dates and go from there. At some point, you'll have to talk about your past, but you've got to get out the gate first, so take it one step at a time. Why worry about step 10, when you haven't even got to step 1?
And, for all you know, some of those guys you've closed could have been ex-priests and would have understood your ex-nun status just fine.
BTW, the first time two people are together intimately, both of them are inexperienced with each other. If you're with the right guy, the two of you will work it out.
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