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Nanette is offline Nanette Post #4  August 20,2009, 5:57pm
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okay. this is what i would do:

i would take fewer of his calls. if you talk daily make it every three days or so. i wouldnt spend weekends with him at all. the talking and you being too close is probably putting too much pressure on him. let him work it out but dont worry about it and stop telling him you are concerned. get busy with your own life and your own happiness. obviously i couldnt say what he is feeling, but if you back off it will take the pressure off of him as he sounds like he is overwhelmed or getting there.
 
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