My question comes up because when I meet nice guys who live in town I understand how to pace the relationship a lot better. And I understand how to start adding him into my life, if I want, and seeing how that goes. I can imagine how it all might play out and such things. However, with this long-distance possibility I feel clueless about the whole process.
Dear,
The answer is still DITTO TO THE ABOVE..........
Stop fantasizing and adding things you are setting the meeting up to fail because no one can meet or beat your expectations.
Nothing changes, if you become friends it will work itself out, if not it's Good Bye, So Long and I'll call you.
Stop adding stress !!!!
Be Surprised.
Harvey7.
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