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"Pay attention to your thoughts."
Doesn't every other piece of dating advice you come across read similar to "stop thinking, just do"?
"Your thoughts are like an arrow made of positive or negative intention. Words are the bow that fires them off into the world. And they will land where you aim."
What if you continue to miss the target no matter how many hours you spend practicing? What if you can't even find a target worth shooting to begin with?
"Suppose you knew that today you’d meet someone special. How would it change the way you behave? Make a list of those things—then live every day that way."
What about all that talk about just being yourself? What if you can't imagine how you'd act differently (especially when you keep hearing again and again how you shouldn't be playing games and stay truthful)?
"In your quest for love, adjust your attitude upward, remain persistently positive, and expect the best. Then get ready to experience it."
Sorry, but thinking positively just always lead to a greater disappointment for me.
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