I'm overweight (250 pounds) but haven't put anything in my profile about exercising (ten minutes of walking a day and occasional trips to the pool) or about how I want to lose weight because it may just seem pathetic. I would be willing to go lift weights or hiking or play golf if I was asked to go along. Up to now I have been fairly sedentary, but I would like to do more. I'm not a BBW and proud of it--I'm a BBW and concerned about my health. But I don't know how or if I should say that in my profile. I'd love to have a man's opinion on this or hear from some women who have worked through a similar problem.
Well I'm a guy and here is my opinion for what its worth.
Do NOT put anything in your profile that is NOT true, that's just wrong.
If your willing to do those activities you mentioned then go try them like Icouldwriteabook said. What's that saying..."just do it" But don't go do it just to impress your profile up abit, do it because it makes you feel good and you like doing them.
If you feel the need to mention in your profile that you need a nudge to get going well keep it positive like,
I would love to try new and different physical activates, such as hiking, canoing. biking, (or whatever you can think of here) just send me an invite.
and final note is .... BE HAPPY with you and with who you are the rest will fall in place.
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