I never thought that I would have to pay a dating site to meet someone and eharmony doesn't seem to be working either. I thought that being xl would hold me back from love but it ends up being my beautiful wonderful boy with special needs. I felt that I should mention him in my profile because we come as a package deal. Everything I do and don't do is around him, how can I not mention him. People keep telling me I'm to honest and scaring people off by putting it in my profile but when do I mention it? Why waste time getting to know a person start liking them put all the effort in and then mention, by the way my son takes 4 different meds a day and has a service dog just to function through each day, never mind the therapy every week and multiple hospital and doctors appointments. I have not dated in a really long time because I felt it was unfair to the other person. It feels unfair to me now to not allow myself love because my life can be busy. Am I wrong to think it's possible to find someone to share my life with, even though it can be hectic?