Clearly I need a translator here...
So I've been seeing this very nice guy for three months and he's been giving off signals that he wants to be a couple (ie: cleaning my apartment when I had to work during a weekend, wanting to sit nex to me in a booth instead of across from me, etc.) but when I try to verally drop the hint he talks about how he may not be around in a few months and then makes some odd comment about my job. I'm in the military, I move around every few years... puts a cramp apparently on long-term relationships.
Would love to fall for this guy but if he's going to sit on the fence I'm seriously considering downgrating this accociation to "just friends" and calling it a day. Any suggestions?
I'm definitely going through the same thing with a guy a friend of mine set me up with! It's really frustrating because he'll act like we're a couple in public (And even said he was glad he decided to play IM Volleyball because otherwise he wouldn't have met me) but when anything is brought up about 2 months from now he says how he's going to move out of state and "start fresh".
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