I'm overweight (250 pounds) but haven't put anything in my profile about exercising (ten minutes of walking a day and occasional trips to the pool) or about how I want to lose weight because it may just seem pathetic. I would be willing to go lift weights or hiking or play golf if I was asked to go along. Up to now I have been fairly sedentary, but I would like to do more. I'm not a BBW and proud of it--I'm a BBW and concerned about my health. But I don't know how or if I should say that in my profile. I'd love to have a man's opinion on this or hear from some women who have worked through a similar problem.