sorry guys Im sure this has been done a million times..heres to a million and one. Anyways, so I am 21 and a single mom to the most beautiful eleven month old little girl. I understand that MOST men my age or close to it do not not neccessarily want someone who has a child. Personally, I am looking for a long term relationship which is why I am here. Like a lot of you I am not into the club/bar scene. I am not here looking for a daddy for her, wait a sec..I dont exactly know how to describe it. I mean Im not here to find someone soley because I do not want to be a single parent. I prefer real relationships as opposed to flings, and am looking for that "special someone". So personally if I started dating someone it would be quite sometime before they were even introduced to my daughter. Right now I am not a paying memeber because I am not really sure if it is worth it. I mean what if everyone is driven away by the fact that I have a child. Anyways, now that this has dragged on forever. Would you, personally, date someone with a child, or would you be willing to build a longterm relationship(given that you were both interested). Any single parents feel free to share your experiences in the world of love.