My point of view may be a bit different being a man but if you truly fall in love with someone then you fall in love with the children as well without issue of any challenges large or small. Your arms have to be big enough to wrap around the WHOLE family. There are a number of things that might initially look like love; lust for one, but true love is just that. If you feel that you have to explain why any of your children need you no matter what age they are then you do not have the right connection, feeling that all your children are loved and accepted is the right connection. No one may read this but it helps me realize just how important the right connection is.
Don
Last edited by don62944; July 26,2009 at 10:11pm.
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