The answer is simple in the near future you and he are going to buy a house or a condo, Right? (Maybe sooner rather then later with the improving economy.) You split the month 2 weeks at his and 2 weeks at your place until you find your dream home, which should somewhere in the middle or a one hour drive for each of you. I would not worry about your family's it gives them somewhere to go on the weekend alternatively
it also affords you privacy, which family do not mind invading!
The cost associated with the both of you moving to a new apartment is not worth it especially with all of the houses on the market. You could also look a leasing a house, before you buy or with an option to buy and they can credit a percent of your rent to the down payment!
Don't move yourselves someone always ends up with an injured back. It called compromise! Good Luck.
Harvey7.
Last edited by Harvey7; July 24,2009 at 12:31pm.
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