I think that there is such a thing as too agressive and there is such a thing as too shy/passive. To be either is just asking to be dumped. Most men don't react well to being intimidated. Nobody likes having to walk on top of glass when it comes to their mate. Everyone wants someone who will spend time on them. I do not belive that most men would like a mate where they have to proverbially pull the teeth out of to get them to do anything.
I think that it is a great thing that there are more and more women who are willing to be proactive about what they want. We aren't mind readers. There are guys out there who are flexible enough, and probably confident enough to deal with an "aggresive woman." Again just not too agressive.
There are always exceptions though.......
p.s. Ask your male family/friends if you are too "difficult," or you can watch their reactions you being around you
Last edited by Andrewthecarrotman; July 22,2009 at 2:03pm.
Reason: thought of something else
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