I don't think that you blew it unless you sent the flowers to the restaurant and then everyone read the card and had a laugh at your expense. No harm done, just find a new place for lunch. On 2nd. thought keep going back for lunch and ask her if she liked the flowers? Wait on her response (?)
it was still nice to send her flowers! If you get a positive response, ask her if she would enjoy going for some drinks and music on an off night?
It will be a yes or a no and then you can find a new place for lunch.
Experience has taught me with working people that are a service providers that
"a BIG TIP" will endear you more so because they are working strictly for the money, which is tips. A Twenty Dollar Bill or two Twenty Dollar Bills or a Fifty or a $100 dollar bill would have really put you way up there for her, because she could have used it on her vacation!
But it is easy for me to be a Monday Morning Quarterback, you did not wrong so find a babe for yourself and be less dramatic, you just want a yes or no.
Harvey7.
Last edited by Harvey7; July 22nd, 2009 at 11:33 am.
- July 22nd, 2009, 11:27 am