Along the lines of BikerBeagle's, idea, maybe things depend on how big of a town you're in. I live in a major metropolitan area, and that means lots and lots to choose from. That means I get a super dinky chance to make a great first impression. But whatever...I'm partially doing this to just be comfortable dating. I'm quite a nervous person, and it's taken quite a few dates to calm my behind down...and I still have a ways to go!