I too have been going through the same thing. I've had an account for about 2wks, paying member for almost 1wk. Out of the 95 matches so far, less then 10 have even viewed my profile, (and then there's a few that close the match without even looking).
Wouldn't it make sense for eh to put profiles on hold if they haven't logged in after a certain amount of time (like a couple of months)? Instead of sending 'dead' matches?