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hmm...is that possible? Let's say I'm a 51 year old single parent of older kids, own my home, work full time, take care of inside and out, have hobbies, am happy, content, and keep crossing the next thing off my list.
I'm attractive, fun, not overweight, great cook, passionate, optimistic, and happy. (not a ploy, just stating what you may be wondering).
So why am I still single? Do men really want to take care of women? If so, how come I only meet the ones that want to be taken care of? 
It's not independent women men are put off by. It's the high maintainence, spoiled women who are impossible to please. To be fair, many men are like this too. When most men hear the words "independent" right away the get a mental image of a bossy woman [most men who are truthful offline will admit to this but online many men lie in the hopes of "getting some."]
Who wants to date a bossy woman? Even if it's only a myth. Why not change your vocabulary and downplay the word "independent?" Most men don't care how much $$ you have. That's the woman's job to care how much $$ a man has {per Mothernature.} Men care more abot how you look. All the $ in the world isn't going to stir up our man organ if we aren't attracted to you.
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