Thanks for the great advice! What are some of the resources you used to check addresses and the IP address? I'm just not that computer literate!
I personally haven't come across this particular scam, but know it is alive and well out there. I'd just add, beware of anyone who comes on too strong, is too demanding or anyone who asks you for money. No matter how careful a particular dating sight is, there is always someone who will slip in for the purpose of picking up a person to cheat, harm or steal from.
Good luck out there in dating land!