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Wonderwoman402 is offline Wonderwoman402 Post #2  July 11,2009, 3:55pm
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This is why you should NEVER talk in any detail about past sex partners. NEVER.

I can tell you that what you do with what you have is FAR more important than your size. I knew one man who was very modest in size, but knew exactly what to do and was great in bed.

The fact that your fiance did certain acts with prior partners earlier than she did them with you means nothing. Did you ask/initiate doing these things with her earlier in your relationship and she rejected you? I'm guessing not. Some acts that you may have tried once or twice in your youth seem better saved for "special occasions" rather than part of the regular menu of activities. Some people prefer those other acts and make them their sole expression of desire in the bedroom. Everyone is different in what they really like and how often they want to do any particular activity.

I have not been with a large number of men, but the ones I have been with have ranged widely in length, width, and even shape/appearance. I can't say that ANY of them were inadequate in any way.

She has not indicated this is an issue, but if you want to give her a feeling of being "fuller" than you can provide, there are other things you can do to give this to her. I'm sure you can figure out what these things are.

You should NOT feel insecure at all, but just stay open to experimenting with even more ways to express your love to her. If this were an issue for her, she would have (or should have) said no to your proposal. Since it's not an issue for her, don't let it become an obsessive issue for you.
 
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