I don't think that's what I said. I'm not looking for a man to take care of me. I find that I attract men who want me to take care of them. I don't understand why and don't want that, nor do I want them to take care of me. I would love to find an equal and am wondering why I keep attracting the opposite.
Quit sympathizing. When a man starts talking to you about his problems, tell him briefly and sweetly that you feel for him and change the subject. An apron strings boy that is looking for a mommie won't put up with this behavior for long, or maybe you will walk away after the first few times that he does this.
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