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we are always independent even within our dependencies. so first of all the term "independent woman" is an oxymoron.
maybe questioning the reason for wanting a relationship in the first place would help. what sounds more to your liking, a person who expresses the cold, callousness of not 'needing' anyone for a relationship or the warmer, friendlier approach of a person who truly 'wants' a relationship and is willing to work towards making that relationship work even during times of self absorption.
if a nonconnectedness relationship is what you seek then maybe you're better off paying for a gigolo.
simply put we are all independently dependent on each other unless you exist in a bubble. and even then, who provided the bubble?
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