Hi everyone,

I've been using eHarmony for a while now and am noticing a distinct trend with the men. I would say, that 9 out of 10 of my matches do absolutely nothing - they don't initiate communication, they don't answer my questions and they don't close the match. Of those that do engage in communication, 9 out of 10 of them disappear at some point - again, not even bothering to close the match. Are any of the other women out there experiencing the same pattern? Has anyone else had this same situation but found a way to increase the number of communications from their matches? I'm feeling extremely frustrated!!!