So, what causes a guy to sign up on EH when they aren't ready? I just don't get it. Is it a whim or what?
Ummm ... weeds out the 47year old females who still want to have kids?
My favorite question (cant remember is one of those pre written or something I combined/made up, cheating by slipping 2 questions in one question box): Why are you single? What do you expect of EH?My answers (abridged): I got married far to quick for wrong reasons :still in recovery of TBI (google it, watch some videos, you'll get idea, but don't even think of bringing up "sorry"... it got rid of my inhibition (can you tell?) and released me to be who I am) "fog", but desperately wanted kids, proposed to 3rd girl I had been with, proposed after 2 months, stuck with it 12 years. I still have issues (primarliy memory/processing) and make sure they are known. What do I expect: Nothing (was kind of trick question). What do I want: reassurance that there is an incredible pool is intelligent fun exciting daring women out there. Am I looking to get married again? HE!! NO! If I do find an incredible person and things work that way , absolutely (note: currently seriously dating one incredible girl (was introduced to her close friends at party last night as "her boyfriend"... WA HOOOOO!!!!!!!, all matches "closed" not accepting any at this time, and if things go that way, ever again, but am not shoppng for a ring (yet)).
So short answer: I don't think anyone is "ready" untill they have met and really gotten to know someone. Those who are looking for commitment are setting themselves up for failure. Those who think they know exactly what they want need to look up the word "change"... it happens, deal with it.
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