Hey, just wanted to say "don't despair!" I'm 27, and I've haven't had a date in 8 years, and have never had a girlfriend. There are more people who have had absolutely no luck in love than you think in the world -- it's just they're mostly keeping their mouths shut about it because they obviously feel like losers. Using eHarm (unsuccessfully, I might add) for the last couple of months has made me realize more about my limitations, too --- I need to learn to be more social in general. But so many factors are beyond your control -- some not very outgoing people get to know other people at work, at school, at church, etc. Who's to say what random people end up in your class or at your job with you? Some are lucky and there are compatible people they happen to meet. Others, not so lucky. eHarm hopefully just lets you roll the dice a few more times, but it's still luck-based too. Good luck!