When I was on eH, I usually took the MH/CS lists with a grain of salt. Typically, these are things that went wrong in past relationships, and people are saying "I'm not going to put up with THIS again."

So when I saw one saying there needed to be regular sex in the relationship, it didn't bother me. I work with guys all day, and I'm constantly hearng how women are not interested in it. And I always thought that was odd because the women I know talk about really liking it. Hmm...

Having been in the situation where an ex seemed very interested in the beginning, then decided after marriage that 3 or 4 times a year was just fine for him (um...no), I can understand when men put that on their list. It's a very big deal, especially after you've said you'll be faithful for the rest of your life.