People, do not re-open matches!!

The way I see it, if I close someone or get closed by someone, there was probably a good a reason in the first place. You have to fight the lonliness feeling and stick to the reason why you bailed.

At that point, its over in my book. I have always been the type of person to move forward and never backwards.

Its kind of like when I quit a job and then went back to it years later. I had totally missed my old job as I moved on to other jobs. I finally went back to my old job, but when I got back, I realized why I had left it in the first place, and I quit again.

Sometimes its easy to think the grass is greener again back on the side you left.

I tried re-opens a couple of times and it was a disaster and waste of time, and will never "re-open" a match again, and I will never allow myself to be re-opened.

It actually really irks me when I close someone because they never responded, and then they are suddenly trying to re-open me after I close them. Why would I want to be in a relationship where I have to do something dramatic for them to respond?