The whole "Can’t Stand" list shows things we’d want to avoid in a partner, doesn’t it? I mean, some people could tolerate some qualities on there, but not all (not even close). Betrayal of trust is a big deal. I’d take it as a given that everyone wants honesty, and if they put that in their profile, I don’t have a problem. If that keeps coming up, I’d think paranoid/baggage- problems. As SMRTRTHNU said, this maybe an indicator they’ve been burned by this in the past. My MHCS list reflects that, and I set it up that way intentionally. There are a few things on there that *really* bug me, or that I really need to see in a partner… The rest is just common sense, IMHO.
- July 3rd, 2009, 10:00 pm