I am looking for a poem I received from a potential partner some years ago called realationship. I received my most blessed loving yet most painful lessons from him, as the words were just words. They aren't mere words to me anymore. And for me, as I was not emotionally present and available to love him, this has been my deepest loss; throughout he GAVE me so much, unconditionally, and in the spirit and light of true giving and loving. We can only give what we truly have...to give. It's expansive and unlimited. Relationships/partnerships have much more to do w/ what each individual has to bring, give, and offer, rather than the attitude of what am I getting out of it, or better said, what am TAKING. Who wants to be in relationship w/ someone who takes rather than gives and contributes?