It is funny that the guys are thinking the "Marlboro Man" type as greatguy put it. I truly believe it is the PamCam definition that women mean.
I have something similar to "Real Men" in my profile but I think I put I was looking for one of the "good guys".
I remember having one match that asked what I meant. When I responded, I was thinking to myself - well, you probably aren't one if you have to ask what it means. lol!
Just wondering, in all honesty, don't you think that if we found the match a wee bit attractive, that barring glaringly obvious red flags we would communicate with them? And wouldn't the opposite be true too then? That if we do not find a match the least bit attractive, then we find so-called bad things in their profile?? Or is it just me that is shallow? lol!!
I think the reason men think of Marlboro man because being a "real man" sounds a whole lot like "be a man".
And in society, "being a man" means being self-less, unemotional, giving and not taking, being strong and showing no weakness, being a leader and not a follower, being a hero and not a coward, NEVER ever need help, never need emotional attention, never crying, etc. etc.
I once asked a woman in regard to torture if she thought women hurt more than men. She said yes.
I think that's the idea behind "a real man"...not a wimp, not some dude that cries, etc.
But F society. That's why I'm not married. Growing up I had to do household chores, because women shouldn't be expected to do those things ANY MORE. But yet I still had to be a man and do yard work.
Frankly what do women add to the equation any more? An extra income? They don't do housework, they expect you not to cry nor need love. F' em. Thanks mom for teaching me that I don't need women. Kudos.
Then there's the women who get angry at men that get into relationships and want them to be their mommies. Well I guess you just want some robot dude who makes money for you and tells you how great you are with no expectations back??
I am so sick of women and their laundry list of demands. You want a real man? Go rent a movie. Thank god for masturbatio n.