28 years old
5'11"
178 lbs
Spanish Professor/Tutor


I decided I'd rewrite my post since it was way too long, and no one was responding must have been a bad sign.

I'm new to this forum and group, and I just wanted to say "hi" to everyone first.

I've joined eHarmony off and on with no success at all. Most of my matches close me, or at at most go as far as stage 2. I guess my biggest question is...how long do I have to wait or is there a point where I should just give up and accept that among the hundreds of matches, there is no one out there.

I have my faults, as I clearly wrote last time. I consider myself shy, introverted, and overly professor like when I'm working. I have been running to keep myself in shape, but not enough to post a shirtless photo.

I don't consider myself as low self-esteem, but I feel as though a myriad of signals could be turning women off to me.

I have no idea what my competition looks like on the other end. Still, I rarely get matches to respond, to even view me, and they close with "other."

Josh.