Don't take it so personally and check your distance settings. It may be that there are no people signing up for or using EH in your area and age range for instance. Also, try to losen up other settings as well and see what happens then. Sometimes it's not about you at all. You may want to call their customer service and see if they can't help you tweak some of your settings - if they are to rigid, it's a much more likely cause for not getting matches.