That can be an issue that a lot of guys cannot get past. Having 3 children is a disadvantage, but is not a deal breaker. Looking from a practical standpoint, a lot of men are not willing to support 3 children that are not his.

But don't give up, be patient. You will find someone who is right for you and is willing to help take care of your children. A few years ago, I dated a woman that had 3 children and had things worked out (children were not an issue) I would have welcomed them.

Don't give up, but on the same hand don't let yourself be pulled into an abusive relationship.

Good luck in your search.