lol! nice way of saying you aren't ready to be a one-girl guy.

right now i know i am single because i haven't been looking for a relationship in about a year - enjoying the freedom of single life. didn't care to 'put myself out there'.

i know part of it is my introversion - makes it harder to meet men when you'd rather not socialize most of the time (and non-introverts often have trouble understanding this). part of it might be that i am very liberal in an area where liberals are the minority.

mainly though, i just haven't found the right connection yet. i used to be kind of eager for a happily-ever-after gig, but i decided to enjoy life & take each day as it comes so if the right person comes along i'll know it's that (and not just some guy to stand next to me at the altar).

to the original poster - you sound slightly frustrated. do you feel like your spontaneity is intimidating or have you been with guys who want things to be predictable? can you share an example from your experiences (and would you even want to)?