I agree that a handshake on a date would feel weird. I do a lot of that with clients and business associates, but in a social setting women rarely shake hands, I think it's more of a guys' thing.
The rest depends on a woman, we are all different, some are more tactile than others. I would advise to err on the side of caution initially and greet her with a big smile - you can't go wrong with that. If you've been communicating extensively and developed a good rapport, a hug may be appropriate. Then read her signs and follow her lead - if she touches you on the arm when she laughs, leans towards you or moves closer, then she would probably be open to more contact. But I'd recommend small steps rather than an arm around her shoulder right away - I would not be comfortable with that on a first date unless we really clicked right away.
- May 25th, 2009, 09:19 am