Maybe I'm old school, but if all goes well, I really like being kissed. But I'm also a pretty touchy-feeling kinda person, so I hug lots of people.

So far, I keep meeting very nice and well behaved men on eH, which is great--can't deny the people are good--but I think I'm a little more aggressive and physical and feel kind of weird initiating physical contact with someone more reserved. I'm also a pretty big flirt with someone I like and need to figure out a way to do so without offending the less flirty men.

In answer to your question, if you like the person, go for a kiss and make your intentions known--don't just hug; go for it and cut to the chase so she knows what you're thinking and that you like her. More than likely, if she's like me, she won't mind in the least.