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D_Lion wrote :

I think there are a couple of nearly unrelated issues here (and they are not all his.)

First, you snooped and pried into things that are not yours (assuming these accounts are not shared.) Still, having established the behavior you might as well let him know what you did. You are not free of blame (and I may well dump a woman for that sort of invasion), but the conversation is no less relevant. Coming up with a tactic to avoid the revelation you snooped is adding stupidity and disrespect to the snooping.

Second, I do not see that there is any relevance to whether he “connected in person.” Unless calling was the only intent – which I would not believe if that is his defense – the intent is adequately a concern that I would absolutely leave.

I see no logic in confronting him (to what, revel in being all righteous?) If you choose to, I would be totally direct and forthcoming about the source of your knowledge.

I agree with DL tell him you're done with him then give him a Quarter and tell him call someone who cares. He'll figure it out.

- May 14th, 2009, 11:39 pm

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