That's easy. I don't date. When a guy shows interest in me, I don't just start going out with him. Sex is not even an issue. Sex to me is so sacred.
I totally agree. I never used to be like that, but a few serious relationships that resulted in a lot of time to heal afterward were not worth it.
I dated a guy last year and broke my self-imposed celibacy rule with him. He's now living in Guatemala... probably to get away from me.
Anyway, I've been back on the celibacy bandwagon just as a way of protecting me and ensuring I'm emotionally ready for whatever it is if it ever comes.
And if not... I like being single.