Well I am of the opinion that the guy should know what the girl wants and what she wont accept fairly early in the relationship. Thenits very clear, and you are not wasting time or mucking the other person around.And if I am after an exclusive relationship, and we have that discussion very early in the piece, andhe is still hanging around after it, then I think there are no mixed messages or assupmtions. He knows what you want, if he likes it he stays, if not he goes. But being honest and up front never hurt anyone, right from the begining....

So let him know that if the relationship is to become intimate, you will be exclusive and expect the same. I think that is fair. If you aren't sure, then hold off on the intimacy until you get to know the guy better. And time will help with that. If he likes you enough, he will hang around.

I wish us all Good luck in love

Mimma