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PY Post #11 April 20,2009, 1:37pm

Sometimes...just be a bigger person and take the high road.

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AsianFusion,586625 wrote :

PY,585941 wrote :

Same like VB girl...not necessarily dream about it...but think about it from time-to-time...the first dance....the toast...I even thought of one perfect song as a background when we recite our vows (

), rehearsal dinners, the fun times when we go from tables to tables...visiting our friends and chat....everybody starts hitting their glasses with forks and we have to do the 'obligatory' kiss...thinking about having somebody do a video on our previous lives as singles and how we meet, etc. The anticipation of her walking on the isle....and I'm thinking how the heck I can prevent myself from balling when I do my vows to her...*sigh*

*sigh* not that I spend too much time thinking about this...

My advice to you, PY-elope!Thatshould take care ofsome ofyour worries. Personally, I think "big wedding" is over-rated -especially with the high divorce rates we havenowadays. Save that money fordownpayment of your new home,upcoming babies or college funds for your kids (unless, of course,you have a rich daddy who is paying for the wedding).

haha..i think for me big wedding is inevitable and no..I don't wanna elope.

Divorce rate yes, it's high in the US, but I still have a pretty decent chance overseas...at the very least it's not 50/50 there..plus I have a much higher hope that I am not as invisible as I am here to women (romantically speaking).

We can talk about this in more detail via PM