Long story short... I had been texting this woman for about a week straight while she was on vacation. She was doing a lot of the initiating too, and we were having some pretty awesome back and forth with text.


Anyways, she gets back on vacation, we go on our first date. When I drop her off she thanked me for an awesome time and said to call her tommorow.


Text her twice the next day, and tried calling her and nothing. Didn't hear anything for the next three nights, keep in mind we had been texting every night before this. Was angry and sent her some texts I shouldn't have which effectively ended it.


One of my guy friends was trying to argue with me it was a big mistake to text her the next day and that I should wait until she contacted me again (even though she said to call). My point was she said to call, and if she was interested she would want to talk to me.


Wondering in the future, when is best to contact a first date again, assuming the date went well.