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Dear DLC972,
There is a situation that I know of that is a bit similar, but in reverse. Here, the lady pined for a man for 15 years - always hopeful that one day he would love her. Finally, after 15 years, he did become emotionally available to her for a relationship.
She was absolutely thrilled as she had longed for that day and had felt so anguished for so long that it was not happening. And then it did! She could finally have her dream - him.
I'm not exactly certain what happened in her mind as she'd waited and waited and waited, but she came to realize at that moment when he called to be with her that she no longer wanted him. She liked him not only as a friend, but had confessed to being in love with him all those years, treasuring every little moment he'd give her just as you are. Always waiting.
After her "epiphany," she regretted all those years she'd wasted waiting and waiting. It's a very sad story.
I'd hate to see you caught up in something like that.
JavaJava5
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