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DLC,
I have spent the last hour reading the various posts you have made and a few of the replies that have been made to you. You have acknowledged them logically but you have shown some immense difficulties in acknowledging the situation emotionally. Robv_la has said everything that needs to be said for you to understand this situation. This woman is damaged and is using you for your lifestyle because she has no other alternative at her disposal.
I must say as a man who has gone through his share of pain with women, as a man who understands your position in ways that would surprise you, that your story has been heart wretching. Every new detail that you revealed was a painful revelation that was sadly predictable and yet unpreventable. I cannot describe to you the anguish that I have felt reading your story and wishing that I could do something to help you. As a man who instructs and helps other men understand the subtleties of romantic relationships and prevent themselves from becoming entangled in situations like yours, I do not think that I can convey to you the agony that I have felt reading what you've written.
Please, please, please contact me privately. I sincerely want to help you if you'll let me.
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