I love reading your articles...they are so usefule and relative to everyday life. A couple of your article related to my life's experience. I hope you don't mind that I am sharing and venting my recent experience where I almost left this wonderful world because a very unfair treatment.


I have been in a 10 year relationship - a very wonderful loving relationship until my partner told me on the telephone things are not working. During our 10 years relationship, almost everyday, we will be calling each other several times a day and say "i love you" or checking at each other; and would seeeach other....share our sincere and wonderful love to each other. We love both our families and friends and everyone and everything we gained during these years. There was no specific reason why I got the breakup call, no significant nor specific reason. I have called and called and seeked for an explanation, but all I received was silence, no response. This is worst thing that ever happened to my life and I MAKE it sure the last and will NEVER allow this happen to me again. After the "dumping day" during those days, weeks, and months, there was not a day that I shed tears, lots of sleepless nights, was very angry, mad, confused, lonely and sick. I was not sure whether I was going to die at any day....I could not function properly. All of me, my system, mentally and physically went dead. Until today, I have not gotten any reason why I became a dumpee. I do not understand....we had so much love for each other, so much wonderful and solid relationship and just one day...I got the pink slip. Until now, I can not understand why this happened....but I am still hoping and wishing that God will give us another chance to check things out and giving us the opportunity toevaluate ourselves and check where and what went wrong; orperhaps this isa trial how strong we can take this. My prayers are the only things I cling on these days.....I have gone to having such great appetite to eat nothing, I have gone from a happy person to melancholy....I have gone from positive thinker to negative....all of me went sour....that I am believing life, my life, or I have been given an unfair life with no apparent reason...I did nothing wrong...and I do not deserved to be dumped in this way. I am coming to say thatthe dumper is a total jerk and will be a jerk lifetime..... a total looser, will never find happiness in lifeand is being flushed with the rest of the SH#@*&T in the toilet, that's where the dumper belongs--not to be rescued not even the rooter-rooter will be able to help.


Considering both parties are professional, decent and loving people....this relationship do not deserved to be ended this way. I have tried to secure for explanation for gazillion times, but no response, no decent explanation...just a major total f#%*&ng jerk.


Thank you for allowing write the above comments.