How do you move past betrayal & trust issues? I have been dating a guy 7 months and I thought we were in love, he has told me he loves me and I him, we are both divorced, we both told each other we wanted an exclusive relationship and I just found out he is on several dating sites and communicating with several women. I saw this on his computer, I printed out the chats and telephone number exchanges and it has been going on through our whole dating time. I comfronted him with it and he out right lied. I dialed the number that was exchanged and his voice mail picked up. I want to save us, but im not sure I can trust him. Im torn on what to do.How do I know he is really comitted to me.
You already know how comitted to you he is...
he isn't . If he was he wouldn't be on dating sites meeting other women.That is a sign of a liar and a cheater (it is cheating in my books). I think its time for you to end the relationship and move on. He did this to you once he'll do it to you again. You dont really want a life with a man who is going to cheat on you do you?