This is a great topic..thanks for all of the good ideas. I like them all. The next match I get that replies to my profile I will have to ask them some of these questions..all are great..

I wish some of the people thatanswer this discussion board would be sent to me as a match! I have gotten more response talking on thispart of eHarmony than on my actuall matches!

You all take care.....Pam