Thank you NYCGIRL77! I totally agree. I've had men who call me and e-mail me and leave me a text all in the same day - and this is after a couple of dates! I've even had messages that say things like, "I'm worried about you," from a guy I barely know. Really? I've managed to survive the first 25 years of my life without you checking in on me, and my family doesn't even call me that much. I've had several dates from eharmony ruined by guys who just couldn't play it cool. I may have been able to develop feelings for them, but with the constant calls/e-mails/texts, all I wanted to do was run away!