I think what you need is to deal with something within yourself. This is, what is there about you that makes you feel compatible with this guy and all the problems he has? The thing is....a guy like you describe has many other problems and issues in his life besides what you listed....it's just that you're not able to see them.


So many times people who have some type of problem in their life don't want to actually change.....they just want to remain as they are but just without their problems. It just doesn't work that way. I think you have to make a choice between either accepting yourself and your boyfriend as you are along with all the accompanying problems. In that case you'll just have to accept being a large support for this guy (including financially) in the future. Or, you can address why you feel compatible with someone like this....which will also necessitate that you leave him. Best wishes.