" now were barley talking at this point, and I want to re-ignite that flame we had early on. Any Suggestions?"
This may not be the most popular answer, but maybe flames aren't what you should be looking for so early on in a relationship. I don't know about you, but I'm looking for a lifetime commitment, not just some chick to "be my girl." These things take time, but once you throw physicality into the mix it muddies all of the other stuff you should be focusing on to see if you're compatible.
Just like on the highway, excess speed in a relationship can be dangerous.