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I was closed by the "other" option by a guy whom I was in Open Communication. We had been seeing each other for three weeks, I told him I hoped he was not trying to impress me by sharing with me all the "things" he had given women in his previous relationships. He apparently got angry, but did not address the matter, instead he did not answer my calls for three days. When I realized we had not spoken for three days the thought came to me that perhaps he was upset from our last conversation. I left him another message asking if he was okay, first, then I asked if he was upset from our conversation, then I told him if I did not hear from him by the next day I would not call him again. Well, that night he went onto eHarmony and closed out comm. -- "other", we were no longer using the tool to communicate. I was shocked, I felt he was a coward, he lacked communication skills, and I had probably hit the nail on the head about him trying to impress me with material things -- good riddance.
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